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 Baby Welcomings & Blessings
In the final analysis it is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.
—Ann Landers
Baby Naming Ceremony. The baby naming ceremony, one that officially welcomes a child into the world by bestowing a name to him or her in the context of the family’s community, has existed in virtually every culture.
- Honor the name you choose. Names are rich with cultural and personal significance. There may be nothing more intimately coupled with our individuality than the name by which we are called. Tell your guests what your child’s name means and how you chose it.
- Acknowledge ancestors. Pay tribute to great grandparents and grandparents to highlight the continuity of family bonds from generation to generation. Include a moment of reflection for those who have passed on. Ask grandparents to offer new parents some words of
wisdom about raising a child.
- Make “vows” to your child. You made vows to your spouse at your wedding; now is the time to make promises to your child. You can share your hopes and dreams for your baby, and how you view your role as a parent.
- Include your child’s peers. If your child has cousins, invite them to take part in the ceremony by presenting a bouquet of flowers, a drawing, or a simple handmade gift to the baby.
- Select godparents or guideparents to mentor your child. Explain to your guests why you’ve chosen these people for this important role, and invite them to publicly offer their support to your child.
Special Baby Showers. Prepare for this exciting change in your lives! Create a meaningful ceremony at a baby shower for mothers (and fathers, if you choose!) to explore hopes and concerns and receive blessings and advice, while elders and friends can offer prayers or wishes for the family. Acknowledge the intensity of this event. Create something special for the child together.
Meaningful Celebrations, PO Box 420, Harvard, MA 01451, 978-263-5937
info@meaningfulcelebrations.com © 2006 Cindy Matchett
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